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We all have been a little self conscious about our looks at some point in our lives but are they really everything? If you are eyeing someone for the first time, you are obviously interested in their looks more then their personality, basically because you know nothing about them. When you see someone you are physically attracted to it brings a feeling that tingles throughout your body and the affection that he or she shows towards you will tell whether or not something is going to happen between you two or not. Attraction means to draw attention towards you and a lot of people tend to just stare at the person they are interested in until someone budges to make a move. Normally the man starts off by eyeing out the girl then he will approach her and start talking to her, but it is sometimes the other way around. It's sometimes a bit hard to find out whether or not the person is interested in you or not because there is always the "look at you and no attraction" feeling which is hard to realize, but that is why there is rejection and many people have trouble accepting that. I personally am afraid of rejection, but it will happen to us all since everyone has different views on peoples look and personality, etc.

When we talk about physical attraction, it can be due to your eyes or your hair or a certain attribute that other people don't have. The one thing that attracts a person to another person though is the way that person looked at you and you will know if there is any potential right away. Of course, not everyone in this world is physically attractive, but looks really aren't everything and there are people that are more attracted to personality rather then their looks. Even though everyone isn't as beautiful as some others, there is usually a special feature in everyone and just because one person doesn't realize what that special feature is, someone will.

There are actually some tips you can follow so you can improve your physical attraction if you don't feel you are naturally attractive. If you feel that you need to be around a group of people that aren't as attractive as you then that is a great way to improve your self esteem, it also helps the people around you. If you are self conscious about your facial features then make sure your teeth are whitened and go to the dentist if your teeth aren't straight. It's a natural fact that girls are interested in guys teeth and if they aren't straight or white, it can be a turn off which can lessen your chances. If you're a girl then wearing make up can improve chances on your beauty, but some people do have natural beauty. Guys are picky also when it comes to dating because many of them care about looks a lot more then women do.

All in all, physical attraction is important in a relationship and if it isn't there then personality can only go so far. If you are one of the few that cares for personality then god bless you, but if you are looking to become intimate then I'm afraid physical attraction is needed, this doesn't mean the person has to be overly gorgeous but the person should be physically attracted to you since everyone has their different views on attraction.
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